Joyce with Judge Toler
How did you get the help you needed to leave your abusive situation? All the people told me to leave, but none of them were giving me other options like where to go. I had no place to go. I was afraid to leave there because I was told if I did he would kill me when he found me. I stayed until I got out of the hospital from my last beating.
What resources were available at the time you left?
I am sure there were resources, but I was not familiar with them. A police officer and a social worker took me to a place where I was not able to tell my address. At that time I was not sure what was happening. I just knew I could not go home to what it was. With this decision, I lost my children for 10 years. It was much later in my life when I realize where this place was, what it was about and what next to do.
How are you a different person today?
I am wiser now, more empathetic and sympathetic for young women and all women that are going through this. I have learned to share my story with others and hopefully it helps someone else. I used to have guilt that I had bottled up in me, but I am now a person that does not have that anymore. I am happy with me... my insides are not tumbling when I speak about my background now. So yes, I am a different and better person now.
What are you doing now in your life? I am now trying to help other women realize that times have changed, do not be naive as I was. I try to stress on other women that YOU are loved, YOU are someone worthy and someone does care.
What advice would you tell people about a victim who is still suffering?
First and foremost is to pray. I did a lot of that, although I thought God just forgot me, of course I know better now. Have faith that someone does care and find someone to tell about your situation. Do not keep it bottled up.
Let someone know you are being abused. My problem was I did not have anyone to share this with. YOU don’t have to suffer the way I did. YOU can get help, YOU should always feel loved, YOU should always know GOD loves you, and most importantly YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF.
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A Caring Company - Joyce White African Jewelry
Sunny Delight
What started as a means of survival to make ends meet, turned out to be a path of passion for Joyce White, the woman behind Joyce White African Jewelry and Hope for Women Arts. The stunning jewelry and paintings that she produces not only fill the spirits of the recipients, but helped Joyce find something positive to cling to.
“Art has been very helpful to me. I have learned to focus my negative energy into something positive instead of woe-is-me.” Joyce’s business manufactures a line of jewelry art that she markets to women she calls, “bodacious and self confident.” Her pieces not only make a statement, but 30% of the proceeds are donated to Hope for Women Arts.
She has also generously created a series of pieces just for Bravery Project and will donate 20% of the proceeds to the work of Bravery Project. One of her custom pieces is featured in the Product Spotlight in this edition. To see more of Joyce's designs and story, visit her websites listed below or call (602) 304-1040. www.info@hopeforwomenarts.org
A Nonprofit Making a Difference – Hope For Women Arts founded by Joyce White
To date, what results has your nonprofit provided the community?
To date we have helped over 120 women like myself who never thought they could ever do anything other than what they were told they could do. For me, I am a trained professional fork lift operator. I never had art classes; however, I am a jury member of several art organizations throughout the Phoenix area.
How can people get involved with your nonprofit?
You can either call me at (602) 304-1040 or go to the website www.hopeforwomenarts.org . After you go to the website, click on applications, fill out both applications, send them to me via email and I will contact you as soon as I get them. Anyone that just wants to assist another artist does not need to fill out the applications.
Artical Published by Kalonwomen ("Joyce White The Survivor")